Girl dating younger guy
" It also made me feel better about the way people romanticize youth and have unrealistic beauty standards. I was investing so much time teaching him things, being patient with him.
Making him meals and making him plans, teaching him about house decor...
I felt sad for him and I understood what he was going through, but I was relieved to know that those woods were behind me.
I'm not a lost little lamb anymore, but rather, a confident, sexy lion.
"Well, you know, he went from his college lifestyle in which he had regular classes, to a consistent day job, to, you know, finding little need to plan for anything or put events in a calendar, but he texted me today, so Embarrassment is not a feeling I'm too familiar with (see: confident, sexy lion comment), but at first I was somewhat ashamed to be dating a younger man. There were even times when the thought of our age difference made me feel taller and then him. As soon as I stopped giving a fuck, I felt awesome. I soon wanted to tell everyone, "I'm dating a younger guy, isn't that totally progressive of me!? I do a ton to make sure I don't get pregnant, so I kept finding myself asking, how am I now mothering this 25-year-old?
While we were together, Ben was a lost little lamb in the woods; scared, full of doubt, directionless.
I remember being a little lamb myself in my mid-twenties.
I looked at my throw pillows — which I once thought looked cheap — and for the first time, I thought, "wait, am I actually the queen of the world?
" If I were stranded on a deserted island, I'd want three things: my Google calendar, my i Cal, and my bullet journal.